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Shinkicker

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Even with your wife hitting you and telling your mom you're a sex-addict psychopath?

I think numba-one reason guys lie about it is it to get what they want but also because the truth would make them look bad.
I'd bet mom already knows. Lol
 

sparkuri

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Even with your wife hitting you and telling your mom you're a sex-addict psychopath?

I think numba-one reason guys lie about it is it to get what they want but also because the truth would make them look bad.
I never cheated on my wife.
Once I chose to marry, I didn't take it lightly.
She did however.
 

Banchan

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Did his wife hit him( sparkuri @sparkuri ) and yell at his mom?
Lol I don' think so and I think that's why he thinks he could easily admit his cheating. When youre just with a girlfriend ya but if you have a wife gaurunteed she will let everyone know you have low moral character. I think this risk of losing power as the man in the house is why they always deny to their wives even when caught red handed. It' one thing if she knows but another if everyone important to him (mom, kids, people who he deals with on regular and respect him) knows as well.
 

Banchan

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I'd bet mom already knows. Lol
I think moms have difficulty admitting their son is a fuck up even if they know he's a fuck up. Easily seen in moms of serial killers. "Not my boy! My boy is a good boy! So he carved up that dog he found on the side of the road, he's always been very interested in biology." Lol.
 

Shinkicker

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Lol I don' think so and I think that's why he thinks he could easily admit his cheating. When youre just with a girlfriend ya but if you have a wife gaurunteed she will let everyone know you have low moral character. I think this risk of losing power as the man in the house is why they always deny to their wives even when caught red handed. It' one thing if she knows but another if everyone important to him (mom, kids, people who he deals with on regular and respect him) knows as well.
I took that as meaning he would establish an open relationship. I don't think he was referring to admitting a past experience.
 

Shinkicker

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I think moms have difficulty admitting their son is a fuck up even if they know he's a fuck up. Easily seen in moms of serial killers. "Not my boy! My boy is a good boy! So he carved up that dog he found on the side of the road, he's always been very interested in biology." Lol.
Can you give me an example of one of these moms? Like a name?
 

Shinkicker

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Lol I don' think so and I think that's why he thinks he could easily admit his cheating. When youre just with a girlfriend ya but if you have a wife gaurunteed she will let everyone know you have low moral character. I think this risk of losing power as the man in the house is why they always deny to their wives even when caught red handed. It' one thing if she knows but another if everyone important to him (mom, kids, people who he deals with on regular and respect him) knows as well.
My kids possibly finding out is a huge deterrent.

I don't give a shit about anyone else.
 

Banchan

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Can you give me an example of one of these moms? Like a name?
Mary Corll
Mary Henley

They both denied their sons capable of murder and blamed it on each other' sons even after the overwhelming evidence of nearly 30 dead young boys that they also tortured and raped.
 

Robbie Hart

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Ladies, I’m not going to keep this offer open for long......your loss if you don’t take advantage of me
 

Banchan

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My kids possibly finding out is a huge deterrent.

I don't give a shit about anyone else.
Is it because the notion that the parental relationship might not be as strong as kids image would harm them or because it would harm the way they view their mother? Which of these concerns you most?
 

Shinkicker

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Is it because the notion that the parental relationship might not be as strong as kids image would harm them or because it would harm the way they view their mother? Which of these concerns you most?
The way they would see me.
 

Banchan

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Lots of great insights. It's easy to be all high and moral when I don't have to think about anyone but myself.
 

Onetrickpony

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To be judged by your kids is very scary. It sums up everything you did as a parent, evertyhing you hold dear. We are trying to be superheroes in front of them.
That's a lot of pressure. I just try to be myself and do things better than my parents did. I'm honest and upfront with them and I hope as they get older they treat others the same way. I'm not a superhero and I don't pretend to be. I'm just a man and try to be a little bit better one wherever I can. When or if my kids choose to judge me I'm ready for their opinion.
 

Yossarian

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That's a lot of pressure. I just try to be myself and do things better than my parents did. I'm honest and upfront with them and I hope as they get older they treat others the same way. I'm not a superhero and I don't pretend to be. I'm just a man and try to be a little bit better one wherever I can. When or if my kids choose to judge me I'm ready for their opinion.
That's of course the ultimate goal. But once you encounter some real issues that kids are not equipped to understand, or certain things that are personal, or between you and your spouse, then it becomes tricky. Of course honesty is the way, but that would be an over-simplification. We all have parts of ourselves we like to keep to ourselves or at least share with your partner.
 

maurice

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Never cheated, but I've had some extremely tempting offers that sometimes make me regret it.