General Do cheaters always cheat?

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tang

TMMAC Addict
Oct 21, 2015
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Not proud but I’ve cheated. To explain my side of the story, it was more about “out of sight, out of mind” then someone came along to fill in.
 

Banchan

The Most Dangerous Dame
Oct 2, 2017
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Not proud but I’ve cheated. To explain my side of the story, it was more about “out of sight, out of mind” then someone came along to fill in.
Do you think you could out of sight out of mind whenever opportunity came up again ? Or do you not cheat anymore?
 

Banchan

The Most Dangerous Dame
Oct 2, 2017
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Im going to answer my own question but i have no idea if im normal. I have only not thought twice about flirting or being with another guy when i wasnt totally attracted or in love with the guy i was with. I haven't actually cheated on a boyfriend yet but I was dating some guys who may have been under the impression we were exclusive but I was still shopping around. I guess that would mean I might cheat if I got bored too. I hope I'm not like that.
 

Hauler

Been fallin so long it's like gravitys gone
Feb 3, 2016
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And if you do get bored, don't get caught. :D
 

Banchan

The Most Dangerous Dame
Oct 2, 2017
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I' sad to say if I was bored and unhappy and really attractive guy started paying me attention I would probably cheat. Shit. I am scum!
 

Hauler

Been fallin so long it's like gravitys gone
Feb 3, 2016
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Would you cheat if bored?
If I was truly bored I'd probably move on before I'd strike up a serious relationship with someone else.

I do flirt though. Part of that is human nature though I think.
 

silentsinger

Momofuku
Jun 23, 2015
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Banchan, are you a boy or a girl?
Im going to answer my own question but i have no idea if im normal. I have only not thought twice about flirting or being with another guy when i wasnt totally attracted or in love with the guy i was with. I haven't actually cheated on a boyfriend yet but I was dating some guys who may have been under the impression we were exclusive but I was still shopping around. I guess that would mean I might cheat if I got bored too. I hope I'm not like that.
Don't say "what does it matter?", but are you male or female?
 

Banchan

The Most Dangerous Dame
Oct 2, 2017
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If I was truly bored I'd probably move on before I'd strike up a serious relationship with someone else.

I do flirt though. Part of that is human nature though I think.
I always poo poo on cheaters though but if I think about it I would probably do same. I'm very intolerant of being unhappy and feeling unloved by a man.
 

Shinkicker

For what it's worth
Jan 30, 2016
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Yes, cheaters always cheat.

Yes, I would want to if I was bored.

Yes, I want to and I'm not bored.

Lol
 

Nemo?

Too weird to live, too rare to die.
Dec 2, 2015
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I always poo poo on cheaters though but if I think about it I would probably do same. I'm very intolerant of being unhappy and feeling unloved by a man.
Check the female privilege at the door madam.....road travel's both way's.
 

Shinkicker

For what it's worth
Jan 30, 2016
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I always poo poo on cheaters though but if I think about it I would probably do same. I'm very intolerant of being unhappy and feeling unloved by a man.
If you ever depend on a man for your happiness, you're going to cheat. Go ahead and make peace with it.

Maybe even find someone that agrees to allow you to be with other people sometimes.
 

Banchan

The Most Dangerous Dame
Oct 2, 2017
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Check the female privilege at the door madam.....road travel's both way's.
I always forget men have feelings.
If you ever depend on a man for your happiness, you're going to cheat. Go ahead and make peace with it.

Maybe even find someone that agrees to allow you to be with other people sometimes.
Have I told you how amazing you are? You always have sound advice. I would love to be even half the woman you are. :)
 

Limpy

Banned
Oct 20, 2015
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I’ve cheated, been cheated on, both are brutal.

I don’t know if I would do it again. I was pissed drunk and I had no idea what I was doing until I woke up naked beside some chick. Immediately felt terrible, I told my gf and she broke up with me.

I don’t drink or have sex anymore so I doubt I’ll cheat again.